What is the proper etiquette for hosting a baby shower?
How much should I spend on sisters baby shower gift?
Friend or relative – $30-$50
It's likely that the majority of baby showers you'll attend are for friends and family, and a budget of $30 to $50 is generally considered appropriate.
Do you have a baby shower for each baby?
It really all depends on the circumstance. If a mother-to-be is expecting a baby soon (a year or so) after her first, “it's perfectly fine to have a second baby shower,” said Lizzie Post, etiquette expert, great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post and co-host of the podcast, Awesome Etiquette.
If the gender reveal is hosted at a baby shower, you would bring a typical shower gift. However, if the gender reveal is separate from the baby shower, you are not required to bring a gift. However, as a hostess, you should not expect any gifts at a gender reveal party.